How to seduce a woman using physical contact

Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just “go for it” and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use special psychological and social techniques to attract and seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive. Attract And Seduce Women Today

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Lick by Lick Cunnilingus Book Review

Did you know that for most women, cunnilingus (oral sex) is their preferred sexual act? But with over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, you need to know exactly what you’re doing before poking your tongue around there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood! So does Michael’s Lick-by-Lick book make the cut? Let’s find out…

To be honest, at first glance I thought that a book about going down on women was silly! I mean, you just lick it and keep doing the ABC’s until climax, right? I constantly found myself skipping to the techniques section before quickly slapping myself in an attempt to read it properly BUT…

After reading the guide for a few minutes, I realized how clueless I was about giving women oral sex. And considering many studies mention that an estimated 50% of women fake orgasms, how would you ever know you’re doing it right?

After flicking through a few pages, I am now a believer and was pleasantly surprised by the in-depth detail woven into this book. It covered getting a woman comfortable with the act, persuasive suggestions to make her shave, safety precautions, positions, and yes, many basic and advanced techniques!

So after reading it, I’ve learned to appreciate some very important details and why we often can’t please our girlfriends and wives. The talk about romance, being relaxed and having a stress-free environment really hit home for me and made a lot of sense! (All things us guys tend to skip most of the time.)

All in all, Lick by Lick gives any guy the complete knowledge he needs to make any woman reach the big O. Two thumbs up from me!

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Top 10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm

Did you know that women can experience different types of orgasms and can even have multiple orgasms?

It’s true! Unfortunately, many women can go years without an orgasm from their partner, and we all know how hard it is to satisfy a woman.

Here are 10 tips to increase the chances she’ll reach climax, including the secret to multiple orgasms:

1. Start outside the bedroom – Want to increase the chances she’ll orgasm? When was the last time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter or flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in a woman’s brain. Do this and you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you’ll be doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)

2. Relax her – It’s very hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension.

3. Ignore the vagina – Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the chances of her coming? That’s right. By kissing, caressing and touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual tension and often the anticipation will be very powerful.

4. Change your focus – If you focus all your attention on the woman first, you’ll make love to her much more passionately. Think about it! If you’ve finished first and decide to help her come, you won’t have the enthusiasm and passion that’s needed to keep her hot and turned on.

5. Tip to last longer – Of course the first step to help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best way I’ve found to not come is: Penetrate as normal and when you feel like you’re about to come, simply move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a hula hoop) and wait until the “little guys” subside again. Now continue pleasuring. :D

6. Don’t use lubricants – Women have a natural lubricant that fills the vagina when they’re turned on. By using a product substitute, you’re only fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll instantly know if things are working; but with them, you can never be sure.

7. Never too much clitoris – Did you know that once you’ve stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? (And no, I’m not making this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

8. Find and stimulate the G spot – The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with a love position that helps hit the G-spot…

9. Use the best position – Not all love positions are made equal. The best one for women is the reverse missionary (woman on top). This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.

10. Give her oral sex ­ The single best way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I didn’t believe it, countless studies have been done to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask what she likes, and mix it up with lots of different movements! However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything there is to know before poking your tongue around there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood.

So there you have it ­ 10 tips you can start using right away to give women the most earth-shattering experience of their lives.

About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of Lick by Lick, the complete guide to giving women oral pleasure. Unfortunately, most men leave women

frustrated and disappointed after cunnilingus. Learn to be one of the rare men who can satisfy her with oral sex by visiting the Lick by Lick website.

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What to say when talking or texting dirty to men

Learning how to talk or text dirty to men often brings up the question of “what to say” when talking dirty.  Most women that don’t know what to say when sending dirty text messages or talking dirty feel like they’re being put on the spot, which is no way to feel about sex at all.  In some cases, not knowing what to say when talking dirty can even put a screeching halt on the entire sexual experience, and things can get awkward – fast.

The secret to learning what to say when talking dirty to your man is found in your man himself.

What words and dirty talk phrases has HE used in bed or in text messages?  What dirty phrases is HE comfortable with?  Think of examples of dirty talk in your own sex life and start to see patterns of what your man says, what he wants, and what he expects.  You’ll soon find it’s all right there for you to piece together and learn for yourself.

But his wants, needs and desires in dirty text messages are only half of the equation.  YOU are the other half, and right now, that part is far more important.  You have to be comfortable talking dirty with the words and dirty phrases you say before you can even attempt to talk dirty to your man.  In terms of “what to say when talking dirty”, there needs to be a middle ground.

Here’s a 3 step process for revealing the right words to say when talking dirty to your man:

1) Do your detective work and compile a list of words and dirty phrases you’ve either heard your man say, or you know for a fact he’s familiar with.  Write them down (without judging them) on a piece of paper.

2) Once his list is done, compile a list of your own.  Write down all words and dirty phrases that have worked for you in the past as well as dirty words and phrases you are already comfortable with using in your dirty talk.  Again, do not judge your dirty words and phrases as you compile your list.

3) Compare the two lists and find dirty words and phrases that are included in both and circle them.

Another way to do this dirty talk exercise is to use a Ven Diagram.  You can draw one yourself, or click here to download our “Dirty Diagram” for free.  Just follow the instructions and use the Dirty Diagram to cultivate your dirty talk words and phrases, giving you a solid foundation to start from.  You will find this method of learning how to talk dirty to your man will help you tremendously in discovering what to say when talking dirty.

Once you’ve cultivated your personalised dirty words and phrases, the next step is to use them to talk dirty to your man.  There are many ways you can use them in your dirty talk, and as you start talking dirty you will begin to realize what dirty talk phrases work best, and which ones don’t.  Either way, it’s better to use dirty talk words and phrases that both you and your man are already familiar with, instead of taking a shot in the dark and talking dirty on your own.

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How to attract women the easy way

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The GuyGetsGirl guide is ever expanding and currently stands at three thick, information packed volumes. Each one covers the attraction, seduction and dating game in detail and describes everything us fellas should and shouldn’t do to be successful in the field.

Although I’m sure Tiffany has taken some serious flak from her fellow women for revealing everything she has, I’m confident the massive thanks from millions of grateful men everywhere will provide a little comfort!

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How to have good phone or text sex

Learning how to talk dirty on the phone or talk dirty in text messages is similar to learning how to talk dirty in person, but there are some important differences that you need to bear in mind.  Talking dirty on the phone or by text message leaves you totally reliant on your voice and words alone, as your appearance, touch, and physical energy are missing – although you can always help things along by texting a picture of yourself too.

This means that the tone of your voice, the speed at which you talk, and the dirty phrases you use must compensate for this lack of being present by igniting your man’s fantasy – replacing what’s physically unavailable with a mental projection of what is possible.  Fortunately, since a man’s fantasy can run itself and conjures up only his most important sexual ideals, he will envision you as the fantasy girl of his dreams – so long as you can trigger his fantasy to do it right.

Here are a couple things to focus on when learning how to talk dirty on the phone to your man that will inspire the proper imagery in his fantasy mind:

1)  Set The Stage:

When starting to talk dirty on the phone, paint a mental picture of where you are and what you’re doing.  If you ask him what he’s doing right now, he will most likely respond with the same question.  You can reply with something like “Oh, I’m just laying around in my silky black nighty all by myself, thinking about you and how hot you make me…”

This type of descriptive dirty talk phrase triggers his mind to perceive what that scenario looks like.  Once the stage has been set in his fantasy, you can move on.

2)  Get the “Go”:

Talking dirty on the phone obviously leads to mutual masturbation.  But before you get all hot and heavy with your dirty talk, make sure to know if that is possible for the both of you to do at that moment.  Since you already asked what he was doing – right now – you will have an idea if masturbation is even possible on his end.  If its not, you might want to save your phone sex for another time.

If you DO “get the go” you can take your dirty talk to the next level.  Saying something like “Oh my god, I’ve been so horny all day I can’t stop touching myself!” in a coy, innocent manor will add to his fantasy (in which the stage is already set) by including you masturbating in whatever way his personal fantasy thinks is the hottest way possible.

3)  Do the Deed:

Once your dirty talk has now set the stage and gotten the green light, its time to get down to talking dirty on the phone and getting super sexual.  Your dirty talk thus far has given him a mental image that you now get to manipulate in his mind.  He’s thinking about you looking hot and masturbating, so now you’d ask “Do you like when I touch myself for you?” (or whatever way you’d like to say it, using any dirty words or dirty talk phrases you know)  in which case his answer will obviously be “yes.”  You can then follow up with “Good cause I’m doing it right now”.  Music to his ears.

If you’re playing with yourself while you’re talking or texting, he will start as well.  Ask him if he’s touching himself, or just demand that he does.  This is where your real phone or text sex starts to escalate into something super hot and heavy for both of you.  You then start talking dirty to your man the way you would normally.  His masturbation replaces your touch, his fantasy replaces your presence, and your voice is in total control of it all.

Learning how to talk dirty to your man on the phone means understanding how your dirty talk affects him while the two of you are apart.  If you follow this three step method you will find it much easier to talk dirty on the phone as you would talking dirty in real life.  It’s just a matter of learning how to talk dirty to your man by manipulating his fantasy mind as the top priority of your dirty talk.

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How to talk dirty to your husband

Learning how to send dirty text messages to your husband and how to talk dirty to him either in person or in a text message can be an amazing adventure that you can both share, but only if you learn how to talk dirty the right way, and with a solid foundation to start from.  Most women that learn how to talk dirty without any sort of structure feel pressured to turn into a dirty talking porn star overnight, which fortunately is not necessary when you learn how to talk dirty with dirty dialogue.

Here are 3 easy steps to learn how to talk dirty with confidence, and in a way that your man will not only recognized instantly, but force him to appreciate you more and more.

1) Dirty Detective:

The first thing you must do when learning how to talk dirty is your research.  Being a Dirty Detective means sleuthing around the internet looking for dirty talk examples and dirty talk phrases that you can relate to.  Not every dirty talk example and dirty talk phrase will appeal to you, so feel free to judge them and either keep them or move on.

But your investigation does not stop online.  Learning how to talk dirty to your man means uncovering his likes, his dislikes, and using your Dirty Detective skills to record information about your man’s personal and unique sex drive.

Start a Dirty Diary to take notes on things you find online as well as dirty talk secrets you reveal about your man.  While being a dirty detective, you don’t have to talk dirty at all.  Your main objective is to learn how to talk dirty in a way your man will respond positively, which means there is no rush for you to pull the trigger just yet.

2) Dirty Disciple:

The second thing you need to do is make a commitment to yourself to get good at talking dirty to your man.  Make it a spiritual practice to take time out, once a day, and focus on this area of your life.  Learning how to talk dirty to your man means challenging yourself to grow.  Practicing your dirty talk while masturbating, to yourself in the mirror, or on your own private video camera (or all three at the same time) can really help yourself improve your dirty talk skill set for when its time to shine.

Commit to a 30-day challenge in which you promise yourself to practice once a day for 30 days and write entries in your Dirty Diary once a day.  While this may seem like a grueling process at first, it will pay off big time in the long run.  One day you’ll look back at your Dirty Diary and smile knowing how much you’ve improved your dirty talk and how far you’ve come along.

3) Dirty Diva:

The third step is to cultivate your inner Dirty Diva and bring her out into the open.  Once you’ve spent time working on your internal Dirty Dialogue and feel comfortable with yourself, it will be time to bring your Dirty Diva out to play.

Most women report that this is where talking dirty really gets exciting for both her and her man.  When ready, your Dirty Diva will act as an alter-ego that only comes out behind closed doors, in which case talking dirty to your man will please YOU as much as it pleases him.

If you learn how to talk dirty in this 3-step process, you are guaranteed to see real changes in your life with long term results.  You can learn how to talk dirty this way as fast or as slow as you’d like, because ultimately, it’s your comfort level that is important when learning how to talk dirty to your man.

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